Friday, February 15, 2019

I think one thing we can all agree on at this point is that Holden isn't okay. From a drinking habit that could rival that of seasoned party goer to a seemingly mobsteresque smoking habit. Both of these aren't what anyone would expect from a 16 year old boy, granted the story takes place in the 1950s. However, these are all just coping mechanisms.

More than he lets on, Holden is cracking under the loss of his little brother Allie. Everyone handles death of a sibling differently, and it is no small ordeal. Sleepless nights, overwhelming guilt, and depression are just some of the things that follow. People resort to whatever they believe will help them feel better, even if others tell them its not good for them. I think that most people would agree that smoking is harmful for you, even if you are a smoker. But telling a smoker that what they are doing is bad to them in the long run won't do very much for them, because odds are they probably know this. This may be where most people had trouble on the prompt "What would you tell Holden?", because there is the fact that our words might do little to change his self-destructive behavior. It's hard to really get through to someone who is greiving, and Holden with all his faux confidence is no different.

5 comments:

  1. That's true. I don't really think Holden cares about what happens to him anymore, much less thinks or cares about his future. Not to backseat therapist, I wonder if he thinks it's unfair that he should live into adulthood while Allie never had the chance.

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  2. I'm pretty late to the party, but now that we've finished the book, it seems pretty obvious that sometime the best remedy is self-realization. Seeing Phoebe brashly decide to follow Holden in his self-destructive path helps him realize how far he's fallen. I guess what I'm trying to get at is that maybe it's not about *telling* Holden but *showing* him.

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  3. Yes, Holden is not okay. I think that one possible healthy coping mechanism would be to give him to work towards; something he actually cares about. I think Phoebe does this, at least a little bit, for him. (Specifically, I am thinking of the scene with her the carousel.)

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  4. Holden is most definitely not okay! He definitely just needed someone to candidly talk to, but that doesn't happen until the end, sadly.

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  5. Holden is not OK for most of the book, and I think Holden failed to realize his own problems. What finally changes this is seeing Phoebe try to follow in his footsteps. Seeing someone he cared about so much making decisions like that forced him to examine himself.

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